Oct 2017 & update in July 2018






According to first Corinthians 14:34-35, most people who read this passage verse do not fully understand it or just plain hate it. That woman are require to be silent in the assemblies (church). Woman are not allow to out aloud to speak their word nor teach in the congregation (church's school - 1st Timothy 2:12). 

“Let your women be silent in the assemblies, for they are not allowed to speak, but let them subject themselves, as the Torah [the teaching law] also says. And if they wish to learn whatever, let them ask their own husbands at home, for it is improper for women to speak in an assembly (congregation)”


There are numeral of reasons why this verse boldly said for woman prohibition to speak in the congregations. We must not overreacted it or get upset right away over this just yet. MISS, please wait and see why we need to understand what this passage massage the primary reason to rule it apart from man? This document article isn't just for female to get attendant to, but also for man as well.


Let roll back few chapter of first Corinthians to 11. In this chapter book, Paul also explained why women shouldn't worship while she have a bald head or uncovered, since it would dishonors in the eye of the Father in heaven. This is another passage where most women also get upset with too. Once again, hold your thought about that. We are in the beginning role to finding out why Paul explained this passage. Some people would literally think this is some kind of head covering cloth, veil or lace nor just of woman's hair alone? Some other believe it is not either one but a symbol. Another meaning. The truth is, it's all of above. We must first understand what is the exact role of this and what are the difference in man and woman servant role? This is where we will began to see why are man and woman created differently in human. After that, we will see in history why man's and woman's duty in their position were so different back than? And than, we will better understand more about marriage.

In the beginning of the scripture book, scripture said that there were no one like Adam (Genesis 2:20), but the name of the heavenly Father YAHUAH gave a solution to him that Adam won't be alone forever and will have a better helper than any animal on earth. This is where we must understand why Adam's wife were not created by the dust as Adam did. It is because she was created out of Adam's rib. Yet, she is also made of dust because of her husband. According to Genesis 2:23, Adam understood that his wife is like him because she came out of his body. She have his human nature. YAH, the Creator ONE gave them the spiritual nature, soul and the intelligence to rule the earth. So this tell us that they were the first mankind marriage couple. No wonder why SHE is MANKIND, not WOMANKIND.

We often will noticed through out the scripture books and written history books which tell us that man and woman in the old day do not work together in public work. Another word, marriage couple most often do not work together with other men or women at a company business. Marriage couple often work together at home to their own personal space. Most often wife assistant their husband in need during farming or family household purpose. This is why YAH created Adam's wife as his co-helper, a co-man as wo-man. The main reason why all grown up female and 

male technically DO NOT work closed together in the business company is because of their nature of sex. Lust often always happen between to two sex. It impact our eye in a wrongful action (1st John 2:16). Plus, we don't want do the wrongful to our eye on those who are already marry. No wonder why we male and female do NOT share bathroom (or restroom). 


The next step to recognize, why do we think our Creator ONE created male bigger and stronger than female? Why are male and female physical so difference in appearing. Plus, why male and female don't share the same situation? This is where we need to better understand the purpose of male and female position role in duty. First, we need to understand better about our Creator ONE who made the heaven and 

earth. To understand how and why he created the law and made everything in heaven and earth. First, let look in Exodus 20:12 about the fifth Commandment of 10 and see what it said there.

“Honour your father and your mother: that your days may be long upon the land which the YAH your Almighty ONE giving you.” 

This teaches us about the respect to our parental authority? Why is that? This is where we will understand that YAH is the beginning parent who made us and delivered us; who have all the authority on earth and heaven. HE IS THE MOST POWERFUL BEING OF ALL. No wonder why YAH is greater and powerful than us (Psalm 99:2, Isaiah 55:9, Daniel 4:3, John 10:29 etc...). That made us less and small from HIM. Just as how a child are small to their earthly parents. We are to respect our parents who have the authority (and power).


Now, how does this apply to male apart to woman? This is the next step where we fully need to clearly understand marriage. Understanding why this marriage bring us between our Creator ONE, YAH and mankind. YEAP, that right, marriage between YAH and mankind is the lesson we need to understand between man and female. According to Isaiah 54:5, this passage tell us why YAHUAH is our MAKER.


"For your Maker is your husband — YAHUAH is His Name— the Pure One of Yisrael is your Redeemer. He will be called Almighty ONE of all the earth."

Even YAH have been calling his earthly people a bride to return to HIM according to Isaiah 54:6-8.

"For YAH has called you back like a wife deserted and grieved in spirit, like a wife of one’s youth that is rejected, says your Almighty ONE. For a brief moment I deserted you, but I will regather you with great compassion. In a surge of anger I hid My face from you a moment, but with everlasting kindness I will have compassion on you,” says YAH your Redeemer."

Even the MessiYah is also described as a bridegroom in John 3:29, because HE is our Almighty ONE who came down to earth long ago. This also explained why the Revelation book in chapter 19, verses 7-9 point out the coming heavenly Master in the last day, harvest day to wedding HIS people.


We now see how this marriage is describe as the relationship between YAH and Yisrael (his people). The contemplating marriage which deepens understanding of HIS love for his people; examining in HIS covenant love for his people similarly enriches to the understanding of marriage between male and female. Because mankind came from YAH which make it his and female came from male which is his too.

The next lesson here is where you as reader may dislike what you're about to discover here. Because there is a high growing percentage of people who believe or allow the same-sex (homosexual) couple to marry each other. There are still people on earth dislike the idea of homosexual marriage. A lot of people are confuse with this matter a long with the Bible. Because they don't read much, research or understand clearly nor simply just ignore it. Whether they follow or how believe what the Bible teach or NOT. Why do some people still believe YAH forbidden homosexual in marriage in the first place?

Let see why some of those people in this world believe it's forbidden. According to the book of Leviticus 18:22 and 20:13, this scriptural passage does point out why man whose lying with another man instead of his wife is an "abomination"? Romans 1:26-27 also point out homosexual desires and actions are shameful, unnatural, lustful, and indecent. According to First Corinthians 6:9, it said that homosexuals are unrighteous and will not inherit the kingdom of YAH. Because both homosexual desires and actions are NOT the marriage covenant way which YAH had made is suppose to be between husband 

and wife. Just like how YAH is the husband and HIS creation people who follow and believe HIM are his bride. According to Genesis 2:24 (or Matthew 19:4-6), “For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife and they shall become one flesh” why is this explain as the only kind of marriage. Another word, why not same-sex marriage? First of all, we need to read carefully again in that passage as why is that this marriage of man and woman are into one flesh? Remember how and where did a female come from in the first place after the creation time. That the female came from a rib of male, which is one body. That is why Adam's wife came from his rib. So when a child is fully grown adults, he (or she) can leave his (or her) father and mother to marriage their love one. To form a new family couple. Same-sex can't do that. They also can't form their very own blood-line family to birth their own child as well.


Here another reason to understand why same-sex don't work properly well. If our Almighty Father is the head of all his earthly people, who is the head (or the master) of the house hold? This is where we are to understand about the head covering. Let look in 1st Timothy 2:5. “For there is one Creator, and one Mediator between Creator and men, the Man Messiah YahuSha;” Noticed, there is only ONE mediator. Here the two questions, first... can we be or have the same power and authority as YAHUAH is, because we are the same like HIM? Second, are we as humans to remove Yahshua our MessiYAh out of the way and put ourselves in the same position as the covering shield (Psalm 18:1-3 & 91:1-6)? THE ANSWER IS NO!!!

Since YahuSha, the Messiah is our “true spiritual covering”. Those who came before Him (ex. Moshe; Hebrews 7:23) were a type, shadow, and reflection of the real, Messiah, Yahshua. He is the true Sacrificial Lamb who took away the sins of the world, and He is the true Spiritual High Priest (Heb. 7:11-28) who laid down His own sinless life as a ransom for all…. once and for all! He lives perpetually in the presence of YAH, as our Intercessor (Heb. 7:25). We often see only man show this example through out history, why not woman? 

This is why we need to think carefully and see who and why we have the head authority to place as human mediator like YahuSha to HIS bride. Man are the head of woman as explained in Ephesians 5:23. When man gets in the way, the Spirit of YAH is not allowed to move freely in the hearts of his people (1st Cor. 7:35). This may be the reason why so many pastors and so-called leaders in these day (who think they are our “coverings” and are hearing from YAHUAH) are leading the WORLD into the ditch. A lot of the pastors and leaders may not realize that they are leading them to it, the ditch of the false teaching. While other pastors and leaders may really mean it, are the true evil work doing. Many believers “blindly” trust that their pastors are smart with the Bible or hearing what YAH said to them, while they aren’t!

That the other thing we the people must understand what Ezekiel 22:26, 34:1-2 teach more about the head covering. To understand clearly that the pastors or the so-called leaders are not the head of the assemblies (people) but YAH. Many leaders have been confused about this spiritual authority with the biblical submission. Like how they seek to COVER you, but how many will lay down their life for you like YahuSha have? Yahshua is the ONE who truly laid down His life for us! This is where we need to re-exam and study 1st Corinthians 11:2-16 again. To understand who is the headship, the head-covering. Once study and exam it, we will finally understand that this head-covering is like the umbrella of protection and authority.


Now that we understand what is the head covering mean to us, which is why the woman are to cover their head according to 1st Corinthians chapter 11 fit all this meaning. As the symbol of the spiritual covering. We are starting to see where this “spiritual covering” come from and who have ALL these head authority? This is why we need to understand why male is the head of the woman. We won't find anywhere in the scriptural books to say anything about the same-sex, which of the couple have this head authority like YahuSha. If it was a male same-sex, we know that both are the head, BUT Matthew 6:24-34 said that we cannot serve two masters at the same time. So how the business or family work here? Where does two same-sex female leave out here?


Now that we understand marriage are mentioned only work in a opposite sex who join and connect each other into one untied member of the body of love. Just as magnet can too. Each magnet has a north pole and a south pole (negative and positive charge), both magnet will stick to one another. Since two north poles or two south poles are impossible to place together; it will push each other apart away. The real husband and wife are the only way to set a family. The same reason why same sex can not bring in a child into the world as the Creator ONE did.

If anyone have the mind of asking this question, “what if my mind and heart which I was born to be as male or female that are difference from my body sex”? This is a very critical question to answer. I may not have the whole 100% answer here, however.... There may be a factor reason to this difference when a child being born different or being made different about their physical sex or sexual mind. People who were born different which opposite to how the creation human were supposed to form correctly, are consider to be as blemish. This is where we need to see the difference between blemish and eunuch. These two words are indeed importance word in the scriptural books to understand correctly carefully.

There are number of homosexual, whichever category they be as Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender or Queer nor Questioning (LBTGQ) claimed to be a Christian. Will highly adamantly defend the idea that our Creator ONE in heaven approves who they are have HIS strong relationships with them. Because of how the Bible point out in Matthew 9:12 etc... They would argue with anyone who are against it, because they believe those people are the one who misunderstood or misread what the scripturalreally saying. LBTGQ who deal with the Bible believe they are affirm and have YAH strong LOVE relationships with them. Believing that they are more bless than any of those who aren't eunuch (as homosexual).


Could they be right about that? The only way to find out is to do the homework to verify that claimed. We need to do heavy research in order to see whether they are speaking the truth or NOT? Let start of reading Matthews 9:12.


There are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.



Noticed, there are three types of eunuchs: those who are born eunuchs, those who are forced to become eunuchs, and those who choose to be eunuchs. Now that we see this, we now need to find out how often does the Bible mentioned the word eunuch? I, Bro. Pouliot learned that "eunuch" occurs about 27 times in 23 verses throughout the whole King James Version Bible. Eunuch apparently to be a person and a man with something difference about their physical than those who born normal. We don't find any female apply to this as well.


According to Matthew 9:12, YahuSha, the Son of YAH do seem to be in favor of eunuchs, because they can be trust. It is suggests that he was especially fond of eunuchs by the third kind: those who make themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He seems to have been a proud member of that category. YahuSha's second type of eunuch likely refers to castrated males, those who have been "made eunuchs of men." But what did he mean by the first kind - those who were born eunuchs? Are they, as homosexual, "the closest description we have in the Bible of what we should understand today? If so, then YahuSha clearly believed that some people are born gay, and he was completely okay with that?


The bigger problem and confusion we have here is how the book of Deuteronomy 23:1 and Leviticus 21:16-20 proclaimed against that. YAH condemns those who are homosexual. That mean YahuSha would not dare disobey or ignore what the commandment law said there. So than, does that mean Matthew 9:12 must of changed after how YahuSha sacrificed for us? That we're no longer under the law by grace? The answer is NO, because of the two reason. First of all... YahuSha was still living before he was hung on a tree when he spoken of Matthew 9:12 and second, YahuSha did not come here on earth to abolish (change or removed) the law or the prophecies according to Matthew 5:17. So what than does the word eunuch really mean to us by these three types of eunuchs?

Let first look in a dictionary to better understand what is eunuch. Be careful how we judge or fall on some of the dictionary books which NOT all are fully correct.


According to vocabulary.com for eunuch:


a man who has been castrated and is incapable of reproduction


According to merriam-webster.com for eunuch:


1 : a castrated man placed in charge of a harem or employed as a chamberlain in a palace.

2 : a man or boy deprived of the testes or external genitals.

3 : one that lacks virility or power. political eunuchs.


Many more dictionaries bring us a same example for eunuch, however there is a bit error in there. For example, there is a word "castrated" in some dictionary explained of eunuch, does not only mean a removal organs of testicles but also a penis as well. Most people say it only the testicles but I disagree with that fact because they do NOT fully know about the ancient eunuch employed who guard the women's living areas at an oriental court. They could NOT have sex at all. Whether it to make baby or for pleasure. To produce a baby are by the testicles and pleasure are done only for a penis. Woman were guard by man who cannot do these sex activity at all.


There is one more strong information about eunuch in a Greek's language. According to Strong's Greek #2135, Eunuch literally point out as the "bed-keeper" or "chamberlain". The original Greek word is εὐνοῦχος, ου, ὁ ,which translated as eunouchos. It's no surprise that these word bed-keeper or chamberlain does not mean homosexual at all? Now that we know that this word "eunuch" does not mean homosexual but a person who can't activity have sex. Those who have this problem are consider just blemish.

So, what does "blemish" mean?


Now we look in the dictionary for blemish also. We will end up discovered it meaning “broken” nor “error” (as defect – not in whole perfection). You might also discovered that blemish also can mean “man” (or human). This explain why we are not made perfect in human because of SIN. This word blemish in Leviticus chapter 21 rules why “no one who has a blemish shall draw near” the Holy Place at the Temple “to offer the bread [of the Presence] of YAH”. No one “blind or lame, or one who has a mutilated face or limb too long . . . or hunchback or a dwarf or a man with a defect in his sight or an itching disease or scabs or crushed testicles” as explained in verse 18-21. People who are blemish are the offspring people. According to Acts 17:25, it said that we all are the offspring of YAH in the sense we are His products of the creative work. All men are not the children of YAH in a personal sense as a father with a son. Since the scripture teaches that YAH only dwells in those who have put their pure faith in MessiYah's example. All others, while YAH’s offspring by creation, have been separated from from themselves from Him because of sin. When a person turns way from YAH by believing in His be-loving Son, YahuSha, they are spiritually regenerated, born anew, given new life, justified (declared righteous with HIM), forgiven of all their sin, past, present, and even the future, and made children of YAH (John 1:12-13). At the same time, at the moment of faith, YAH the Holy Spirit comes to indwell their lives to enable them to experience fellowship with HIM and understand, grasp the truth of Scripture in a personal and meaningful way. No wonder why YAH bless the one who made themselves as eunuch for the kingdom of YAH. Because he does not want to get in or risk trouble with sex. Avoid sin of wrongdoing but to stay pure holy even so he became more blemish. Where he did not separated himself from YAH. 


Let get back on about first Corinthians 14:34-35. As why woman are silent in the assemblies. It's because it is not their position duty to speak in the assemblies. Since man are the head of the assemblies. This leave us why First Timothy 2:12 point out why woman have not permit to teach or to assume authority over a man. This explained why YahuSha have chosen the 12 disciple men to follow him. YET, the women follow their husband or brothers. Because the wife of their husband are their helper. This is why wife are under the authority of husband who is the household of the family according to Ephesians 5:23-33. Just as our Almighty Father is the head like a husband to HIS people on earth. 

However, YAH also taught us how to be fairly to one another? YAHUAH teach us in Colossians 4:1 that we are to treat our bond servants justly and fairly, knowing that we also have a Master under heaven. Which is why Galatians 3:28 point out 

that we are all human, neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for we are all one in YahuSha, the Messiah. However, we must also understand why 1st Peter 3:7 also point out that woman are still weaker in their vessel. Since that she was created part of Adam's physical rib, she physically does not have the whole size or physical capable in strength as man do. 

Man's physical are often more strengthen than woman. Man and woman have different ability as well. Why are there 99.8% lumberjack who are mostly man, 98.6% appliance repair technicians and crane operators are mostly man or 98.1% jet pilot are man? It is because these jobs ability can preform better than woman. Most often in the ancient day, woman job are at home, while woman often care for a child. Since woman can breastfeed but man cannot. Same for some job man cannot do, but women can.

This is why female is a mankind, because male came first into exist. Again, we can see why woman is a co-man. There is a lesson about mankind as the bride to YahuSha. If we will never be a good groom to our wife, we're NO bride of YahuSha, our headship master. This is why Ephesians 5:21-24 teach us to submit to one another out of reverence for YahuSha, our Messiah. Wives, submit her-selves to their own husbands as we do to YAH. For the husband is the head of the wife as Messiah is the head of the congregations, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the congregations submits to Messiah, wives also should submit to their husbands in everything. Now let understand about the apostleship, since the husband and wife are one, there is 

already an apostleship who serve our Master YAH. It the mankind humanity because the woman came from ONE man body. 

Now, you may have a question. If the daughter' become a widow or is divorced? Who is her covering? Is she free to marry another man? While she is without a husband? The answer is, she can return to her father, returning to the former umbrella of protection and authority according to Leviticus 22:13. According to Romans 7:2–3, widow woman are freely to marry another man but not if she is divorced. If we also question about a unmarried woman who have a question during the assembly, who she have no husband to ask? This bring in the same situation, whether the unmarried is an adult or not, it is a father she can come forward to question.


Now that we see a woman is NOT under the authority of EVERY man but to her husband and the father! Again, according to the scriptures, if a woman become a “wife,” she is no longer with her birth father, the new covering (umbrella of protection and authority) is the “husband.” If it's a non-married or single woman, who is without a father (even not living with the birth father), she is still covering of Yahshua, the Messiah. Since He is the head of every mankind any way. Yet, she can go for the next kin elder of her relative. Such as uncle or elder cousin if there is no uncle.


This is why again we need to understand what 1st Peter 3:1 teach us. “Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;” men themselves are NOT superior over woman, because of what the scripture state in 1st Corinthians 11:3. Once and for all that a woman is NOT subject to EVERY man, but rather to her own husband ONLY! NOT under the authority of EVERY man does not mean we are freely from those who are the headship of YahuSha. Since woman are the co-man, she is still to respect of their place (1st Timothy 2:13). This is why woman are in no position to lead man, unless there is a very strong reason. You may wonder, what do you mean if unless there is a very strong reason? In the past, woman did lead YAH's people. For example, Deborah in the bible of Judge 4:4-5:31, she was a prophet and judge in her day. It happened because all man were found unholy in YAH's eye as Deborah who could lead Israelite.


Now that we have overall most of this document information, where we should be able completely understand why woman aren't allow to speak in the congregation as man do. Women are allow to listen and worship. The position of man are apart from what woman do. Because she was not made to do the same as man. Since man are the headship of the woman as YahuSha is the headship of his bride. That is of us, mankind. Woman should be glad to have this honoring serve to man as she would also being serve to YAHUAH. However, If you happened disagree and angry nor dissatisfied this whole article, this would make you as ANI-YAH. Against YAHUAH. Because it is not my words but YAH's words you disagree or dissatisfied HIS way of life.